Follow your inner truth. Do not look at what others are doing for guidance. Only look within. Others may fall away from your common path but you may remain on course with your steadfastness.
By resolving inner conflicts and being at peace with yourself, you can turn your inner vision outward and learn to gain insight into others from within your internal experience. What happens around you may be perceived as if it’s happening in you.
You may use this awareness as a subtle manifestation to help and heal others, but not necessarily to influence. They do not understand, and any direct expression can thus lead to conflict.